Mx Tomie joins host Matt Slayer on And Now We Drink for a candid and wide-ranging conversation about ethical financial domination, consent, and modern power dynamics.
In the episode, she offers thoughtful insight into the structure and responsibility behind control-based relationships, emphasizing consent, self-awareness, and psychological nuance in BDSM. The discussion moves beyond stereotype, examining how ethical FinDom operates in practice and how traditional and alternative relationships share underlying power frameworks.
Mx Tomie also speaks openly about navigating public perception, working as a professional dominatrix, and balancing a nomadic lifestyle with the demands of her career. The conversation blends philosophy, kink culture, and lived experience into a grounded and compelling dialogue.
