Mx Tomie — Mistress and Dominatrix in NYC

Seductive Guide
Down The
Rabbit Hole

The Moment You Realize You've Lost All Control.

You arrive with a plan. Then I look at you—really look—and your plan dissolves. Your breath gives you away long before your words do. I take your first thread between My fingers and pull: a pause here, a boundary there, a quiet command that ignites something deep inside you. When your knees finally hit the floor, you’ll understand: you did not come here for what you wanted. You came here for what I want.

I am Mx Tomie, an NYC-based dominatrix and performance artist. My work lives where hunger meets nerve—discipline threaded through seduction, obedience wrapped in velvet and steel. When you serve Me, you enter a ritual of control with a single outcome: I decide who you are tonight. 

I Toy With You. Slowly and Carefully.

I am deliberate. I read micro-reactions—the flinch you try to hide, the hitch in your breath, the way your voice changes when you’re near the edge—and I build a scene around them. I don’t raise My voice. I don’t rush the moment; I make it inevitable. The aftermath is part of the design: words that echo in your head on the ride  home, a mark blooming under your shirt at brunch, instructions that won’t stop replaying until you obey Me again.

My aesthetic is cinematic and exacting: a balance of elegance and menace you feel before the first touch.

Let's See Where You Fit Into My Desires.

Use these as invitations, not menus. You may ask. I will choose.

I'll break you in properly,
just the way I like.

For the New… and the Very Experienced

If you’re new, nervous, or wide-eyed—that’s adorable. I have a weakness for breaking in virgins and first-timers, guiding you from stuttering nerves into natural submission. Under My heel, your walls fall, and I mold you into exactly what I desire.

If you’re seasoned and certain you’ve seen it all—good. I’m more dangerous than you expect, whether I’m standing over you in chastity or tracing a blade across your chest. Your body may heal and hide the marks I make, but your mind will carry Me everywhere.

Your mind is completely at my will.

CBT sessions in NYC with Mx Tomie

And I will
destroy it.

And I will destroy it.

Like my manga namesake, long after we're through, I'll be there.

As your dominatrix in NYC, I return to you long after the scene ends—a command that replays when you wake, a phantom touch that tightens your breath on the train, a ritual that guides your next move. You’ll feel Me presiding over your choices, nudging your body, tugging your thoughts, until the chaos settles into a beautiful order with My name on it. My lithe fingers close around your heart; My sharp tongue coils around your mind; and you surrender—completely—so that every inch of you carries the imprint of Mx Tomie. In private you’ll discover what I’m truly capable of; in public, only you will know why you tremble.

And how can you repay me for this blissful submission you’ve finally found?

Give me the kind of exclusivity that you desire too, so that I don’t deign to share my presence with anyone I don’t choose. Bring me a new torture device and let me torment you to my heart’s content. Let me push the envelope further and further into the psychological torture techniques that have piqued my special interest for years. Try to satiate me with your findom fetish. Prove to your Mistress Tomie that you are the most devoted, and find out just how sweet my smile is when your femdom goddess is truly pleased. I am a cruel, not miserable soul. I would like to see you try.

Drop your walls at my feet

A Mistress and Dominatrix mirage in NYC is manifested.

Let me take control of your mind for a while. I love fucking you all the way up, pulling down your walls to remodel you into exactly what I need. I will push you past your preconceived limits, through your anxiety and tears, and into another realm. There is no pressure to be special here—  I will make you into everything I need. Simply do as you’re told, and rebuild your life with me. The dominatrix of your dreams.

How to Book a Session with Mx Tomie in NYC:

  1. Select Your Descent
    Explore session pages: Bondage & Restraint, Body Worship, Chastity Training, Needle Play, Edge Play, and more. Only you can tell me what fractures you; I’ll decide what saves you. If you’re curious about the types of submissives I enjoy most, see the interviews on My blog.

  2. Send a Clear Application
    Fill out my booking form completely and fully. My assistant will respond to you within 24 hours. 
    If you’re accepted, you will receive booking details, location or virtual instructions, and other instructions to review.

  3. Arrive Ready
    Be punctual, respectful, prepared. Bring your most private self—focused, present, and ready to obey.

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