Mx Tomie Elite Asian Femdom & Dominatrix in San Francisco

San Francisco Dominatrix & Femdom: Mx Tomie

A Closer Look

Come. I desire a plaything. Let’s see if you can entertain me, and if you’re willing to serve, all pliable parts offered up. Earn your place to mean something to me. With my exclusive art of manipulation and seduction as your guide, you’ll discover your personal patina of pleasure and pain.

I am the sadistic Asian Dominatrix that you have been craving to behold and serve in the San Francisco Bay Area. Not just a personal sadist, my expertise comes with years of experience in the Kink scene. 

Raised in a strict religious household, my background informs my sadism and desire to be omnipresent, omniscient, and omnipotent in my submissive’s lives, though it does not define it. 

My devotees describe me as quietly intense, genuine, voracious, and intelligent. I refuse to speak loudly or scream for obedience—I expect attentiveness, and the best from you, the moment you approach. Anything less will never be acknowledged.

Once we’re alone, I’ll be intensely observing your every move to discern what captive fantasies I can yet unleash. 

 

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As a novice, trembling and uncertain, you will offer me an unspoiled canvas upon which to conceive the most foul debasements as I confidently lead you into a madness you have never confronted.

For the more experienced admirer, I am a spectacular phenom, a connoisseur, a truly vicious, captivating, enigma.

Let me take control of your mind for a while, or always… I relish in the suffering you offer me so generously, and to push you past your limits, through your anxiety and tears, into the expanse of amorphous sensuality and service that you seek so feverishly. 

Simply do as you’re told, and you can rebuild your very self, from nothing, to the sheer glory of gratitude and dedication in the Kingdom of Me.

When You Are Ready to Approach

You may be nervous, you could be trembling right now, asking yourself if you’re ready to serve, worried or scared to take the big leap into the abyss of pleasure through the pain of stripping away every egoistic urge…

And that’s exactly how I like you. Your nerves and any insecurities are mine to maneuver.

When you contact my assistant you will have the opportunity to express any and all reservations, doubts, desires, or curiosities along with the required information for screening. Once these details are dealt with, new submissives will have an opportunity to discuss these things with me before our first meeting, so that I can truly see your willingness to serve, and find out exactly how your mind can eventually be molded into my most useful instrument.

We will decide the details of our meeting, whether you are a true pain slut that wants to sacrifice your body to me, a petulant brat in need of correction, or perhaps a little lost puppy in need of home training…. 

And once your deposit is sent and all details decided, the anticipation is what will drive you toward me, both of us ready to explore the limits of your service and push you beyond the level of servitude you have always imagined but only I can bring to reality. 

All prospective submissives must note: 

All experiences will be created most efficiently with admirers who are trusting, direct, obedient, and eager to serve.

These qualities are displayed from first contact, and should you fail to display them, to myself, or my assistant during booking and screening, no more communication will ensue, and the tribute for acknowledgement in future will be at my discretion.

The Dungeon

My lair, my house of hedonistic horror and delight, the stage upon which we will find your true worth…

The spaces I use to explore with you are always tailored to what works best for our explorations. 

Incall in San Francisco will always be in one of my favorite BDSM dungeons, and for new admirers this is not optional, outcall is only available to submissives that have proven their devotion on a first meeting by coming to me willingly and obediently. 

Of course, once we have our rapport, any place can become our playground with enough thought and creativity…

Outcall requirements for The San Francisco Bay Area are always 5 star hotels unless we have discussed something alternatively alluring beforehand. 

And if you cannot show up in person, for fear, or for any other excuse, I’m just a video call away.

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Digital Domination

Digital Domination is a formidable talent of mine. Whether you are sequestered in the corners of Sausalito or Marin, or sneaking away from a meeting at your office in The Financial District, I can drag you to your knees at any time of day with the click of a button.

Imagine having access to an elite Asian domme like never before. Let me introduce you to the new and torturous ways to dominate you. 

I have a specific fetish for information: social media accounts, passwords, watching you through cameras, controlling your phone, etc. If that’s something that makes you curious, inquire about Digital Surveillance.

If you’re a fan but not ready to take the leap to in person BDSM sessions yet, subscribe to my fansites and binge my clip content to become a loyal follower. Digital sessions, sexting, and other packages are also available. If we are already familiar, you know what having a dominatrix at your fingertips can do to you…

In-Person BDSM Sessions in the San Francisco Bay Area

Deposits

I require a 25% deposit to secure your slot via Cashapp, Amazon GC, or crypto (USDC, BTC, and ETH).

Cancellations

I require at least 48 hours notice for cancellations for your deposit to be used as credit for a future session. If you cancel without the 48 hr notice, I require the full session tribute to be compensated for my time. If you have too many last minute cancellations, it will be up to my discretion if I’m interested in continuing to see you or negotiate a fitting exchange to compensate for my expectations

Fly Me To You

I am an enigmatic femdom with an exceptionally strong sadistic streak reserved for BDSM FMTYs.

It doesn’t matter where you are, with enough commitment, you can always find yourself next to me. Just Fly Me To You. A simple enough feat. Purchase my flight and travel time, in addition to your booking, and I arrive in your town, ready to take over.

NORTH AMERICA

Rates start at $4,000 for 6 hr minimum

Inquire here with your travel proposal to be granted an exact quote.

In addition to tribute, First / Business Class flights, accommodations & airport transfers are to be covered in full.

Social time can be included in time minimums for fly me to you BDSM sessions. All overnights must include 7 hours of sleep.

How Can You Satisfy Me?

Try to capture my interest. Give me a reason to look your way.  

Tell me your kinks, every single depraved desire.

Go on, tell me all about the demonic BDSM that you are desperately missing in this Saintly coastal city. Good communication is a sure way to win my attention, so become familiar with my favorite ways to play below. 

Give me a reason to turn my voracious appetite to you. 

I know many Dommes who can join us for kink sessions in San Francisco or anywhere on earth for that matter….  I am also happy to engage in a FMTY, or extended trip together, the better the offer, the deeper the devotion, the more interesting you become. 

Don’t be afraid to let me know you are a novice or entirely inexperienced in some ways, while more comfortable with other predicaments.

If you’re a first-timer, I require a minimum of 1.5 hrs. For a more fulfilling experience, I recommend as much time as you can spare. I do loathe holding my talents back for the sake of time…

While together, you will have my full attention. While apart, my assistant Vesper responds to requests within 24-48 hrs.

Note: I do not provide illegal services.

Physical

Impact Play
Wax Play
Corporal Punishment
CBT
Bondage/Restraints
Pegging & Anal Play
Golden Shower
Needle Play
Knife Play
Sounding
Sensual Domination
Orgasm Training/Denial
Edging
Body Worship
Chastity

Psychological

Blackmail
Mindfuck
Human Furniture
Humiliation / Degradation
Cuckolding
Edge Play
Feminization / Sissification
Forced Bi
Hypnosis
Roleplay

Other

TPE
FinDom
Training
Double/Multi-Domme sessions
Discreet Public Play
Digital Domination

How To Book

Now that you have decided to take the plunge, do not hold back…

To apply to serve Mx Tomie in the San Francisco Bay Area, click here to fill out my application form, or email my assistant at mxtomieassistant@protonmail.com. My assistant responds to requests within 24-48 hrs.

Remember, the ability to precisely and deftly execute my instructions is paramount to beginning and building our relationship. Incomplete forms or inquiries will not be entertained and quite honestly are an insult and a bore.

Be as direct, open, and willing to provide the requested information as possible for the chance to serve in my Kingdom.

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Soon,

Mx Tomie