Mx. Tomie offers in-person and digital BDSM and femdom sessions in New York City, with travel availability to Los Angeles and San Francisco. Session specialties include impact play, bondage, psychological domination, sensory play, orgasm training, and more. In-person sessions are available by application and start at $1,500 per hour. Digital domination sessions are also available starting at $300.
So, you think you can pique my interest? Do try. Tell me your kinks? Go on, tell me all about the kinky BDSM in NYC that shall soon transpire. Good communication is paramount, so peruse my various specialties below. Give me a reason to turn my voracious appetite to you. I know many Dommes who can join us for kink sessions in NYC (or elsewhere). I am also happy to engage in a FMTY, so don’t limit your imagination.
Below is a list of my favorite ways to play – don’t be shy inquiring about other kinks and fetishes you may be into. If you’re a first-timer, I prefer a minimum of 1.5 hrs. For a more fulfilling experience, I recommend as much time as you can spare. I do loathe holding my talents back for the sake of time.
While together, you will have my full attention. While apart, my assistant Vesper responds to requests within 24-48 hrs.
Blackmail
Mindfuck
Human Furniture
Humiliation / Degradation
Cuckolding
Edge Play
Feminization / Sissification
Forced Bi
Hypnosis
Roleplay
TPE
FinDom
Training
Discreet Public Play
Digital Domination
Á la carte: session time $1000/hr; social time $600/hr plus expenses.
* Á la carte refers to session or social hours added on to any package, or any bespoke combination of Social + Session hours.
Please confirm your session with a 25% deposit according to one of my payment methods which will be provided upon successful verification. Leave the description field blank when sending any digital payments.
I require at least 48 hours notice for cancellations for your deposit to be used as credit for a future session. Dungeon rental will need to be covered by you in any cancellation.
If you cancel without the 48 hr notice, I require the full session tribute to be compensated for my time.
If you have too many last minute cancellations, it will be up to my discretion if I’m interested in continuing to see you or negotiate a fitting exchange to compensate for my expectations.
I rent space at all major dungeons for BDSM in NYC, specifically in Manhattan and Brooklyn. Incalls will always be at my preferred dungeon location in Manhattan, unless otherwise specified.
I do not see subs for outcalls for the first session.
For outcalls, I require 5 star hotels in either Manhattan and Brooklyn.
Let me be your digital dominatrix and video vixen.
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Now, you have access to an exquisite Asian domme like never before. And I have new and torturous ways to dominate you. I have a specific fetish for information: social media accounts, passwords, watching you through cameras, controlling your phone, etc. If that’s something that makes you curious, inquire about Digital Surveillance.
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$400 / hr
$300 / half hr
Password required for access.
Passwords are a privilege and must be earned.
Good subs will receive if I so choose to bestow. DO NOT ASK.