This is the transcript of Mx Tomie’s interview with sub L. If you want to see the full length interview, head to Mx Tomie’s Youtube Channel.
Interview with Sub L — Mx Tomie in London
Mx Tomie:
Hello Tomie fans! We’re in London today, and I’ve been here for almost three weeks. I’m joined by one of my favorite London subs, L. Because the last sub interview was such a hit, I had to do an international one.
How was your travel in today?
L:
It was good—especially because I knew I’d be seeing you.
Mx Tomie:
Aww. L gifted me these really cute Vivienne Westwood earrings I’ve wanted forever, and there was a really sweet card with them, too.
Let’s talk a little about our dynamic.
How Did You First Find Me?
L:
I followed Eva Deville on Twitter, and around June, when you went to Berlin, I saw a video of you and your friends. You stood out to me right away. From there, I started following you closely and eventually made the leap to reach out. That’s when things really started spiraling—in the best way.
Mx Tomie:
You really did spiral. It’s been 8 months now.
L:
Yeah, and during those 8 months, we’ve been playing more and more, especially with chastity. The control has been building.
What’s the Longest You’ve Been in Chastity for Me?
L:
Right now, actually. Since the start of the new year.
Did You Always Know You Were Submissive?
L:
No, not at all. I used to just watch JOI videos. I thought I’d just order a custom video—that was the extent of it. I never expected this kind of connection to happen.
Mx Tomie:
When I get my hands on you, I don’t let go.
What Makes You Feel Safe Submitting to Me?
L:
Your personality. You’re kind and compassionate. I trusted you almost immediately. And I think you’re the most beautiful woman in the world. That makes it easy—wanting to please you, to make you happy.
Mx Tomie:
What do you mean by “most beautiful”?
L:
Looking at you is calming. Pleasant. I could stare at you for hours.
Mx Tomie:
And yes, he does. You’ve also got your collar today, and your chastity cage is on. I always love holding a sub’s keys and what that symbolizes.
Tell Me About Your Locked Experience With Me
Mx Tomie:
I want to hear about that New Year’s release—how you felt afterward and what it made you realize.
L:
After the December release, I thought I needed to explore vanilla relationships again. I asked to go on a “date,” but it was really a hookup. I knew what would happen.
During the hookup, it wasn’t satisfying. It only felt good when I imagined it was you—your nails, your touch. When it finished, I didn’t feel pleasure. I felt guilt. It wasn’t for you. That’s when I realized I wanted to dedicate myself more deeply to you.
Mx Tomie:
Sometimes you need that contrast to know what you really crave. I’m glad you realized being owned and locked for me is your path—because I love that.
What Does Submission to Me Feel Like?
L:
It’s deeply satisfying. When I make you happy, I feel a dopamine rush—it drives me to go further, do more. Seeing your smile is everything to me.
Mx Tomie:
L is very into my smile, lips, and face. I remember doing face-focused play with you—it was mesmerizing for you.
How Long Would You Stay in Chastity for Me?
L:
However long you want. Forever, if that’s what you ask.
Mx Tomie:
Don’t tempt me! Maybe I’ll test just how long you can go. Locktober’s coming—maybe we’ll hit a full year.
Advice for Subs Exploring BDSM
L:
Try it. You’re only alive once. You don’t know what you’ll like until you do. And don’t let others’ opinions stop you—they’re not living your life.
How Is This Love Different From Past Loves?
Mx Tomie:
You’ve said you love me. How is it different?
L:
It’s stronger. I don’t watch porn anymore—it doesn’t feel right. It doesn’t compare to how I feel when I’m with you. The long distance only makes it more intense. I crave you more.
Mx Tomie:
Distance—space and closeness—can create even deeper intimacy in D/s dynamics. That’s one reason I love chastity: it blends control and longing.
What Helped You Stop Watching Porn?
L:
Honestly? Devotion. Falling for you. That did the trick.
Mx Tomie:
How much were you watching before?
L:
Maybe once a week. But during your trip to Japan, I had a little blip—trying to fill the space. But now? I don’t want to. I don’t need to.
Mx Tomie:
I remember. I was gone for two weeks in November. It’s always more satisfying when I return and see my good boys have been holding strong.
What Do You Do for Work?
L:
I’m an accountant. I look at numbers all day. It funds the lifestyle—so I don’t mind.
When Did You Realize You Liked Dominant Women?
L:
There was a scene with Poison Ivy in Batman where she controlled him. I kept rewinding it. That was my first clue. I also gravitated toward dominant women in lesbian porn. But it wasn’t until I met you that I knew—you were the one meant to control me.
Final Words to the Tomie Community
L:
Keep supporting Tomie—she’s amazing and works so hard. I can’t wait to see how far she goes. I’ll be right there along with everyone else.
Mx Tomie:
Thank you, L. Such a good boy. I think this deserves a little slap.
Come closer. Yes… now look deep in my eyes.
L:
Thank you.
Mx Tomie:
Good boy.
